It’s not punk to antagonize minimum wage workers.
Like writing shit on bathroom stalls, making messes in grocery and big box stores, trashing hotel rooms, yelling at actual workers about how horrible their capitalist employers are. Stop doing this shit. You are making life harder for those you claim to identify with and want to help.
FYI, if someone brought up as a girl says ‘I don’t know….’ Or expresses indecision in response to a request, just treat it as a no to begin with. If they are keen, they will tell you, but otherwise you might be seeing someone grappling with the fact they have been taught to never say no for most of their life.